Sunday, March 1, 2020

J Krishnamurti On Education

The purpose, the aim and drive of these schools, is to equip the child with the most excellent technological proficiency so that the student may function with clarity and efficiency in the modern world. 

A far more important purpose than this is to create the right climate and environment so that the child may develop fully as a complete human being. This means giving the child the opportunity to flower in goodness so that he or she is rightly related to people, things and ideas, to the whole of life. To live is to be related. There is no right relationship to anything if there is not the right feeling for beauty, a response to nature, to music and art — a highly developed aesthetic sense. 

I think it is fairly clear that competitive education and the development of the student in that process.... is very, very destructive. 

We must be very clear in ourselves what we want – clear that a human being must be the total human being, not just a technological human being. If we concentrate very much on examinations, on technological information, on making the child clever, proficient in acquiring knowledge while we neglect the other side, then the child will grow up into a one-sided human being. When we talk about a total human being, we mean not only a human being with inward understanding, with a capacity to explore, to examine his or her inward state and the capacity of going beyond it, but also someone who is good in what he does outwardly. The two must go together. 

That is the issue in education: to see that when the child leaves the school, he is well-established in goodness, both outwardly and inwardly.

~ J Krishnamurti 

Tuesday, July 31, 2018

Sheru - sovereignity is not everlasting

Sheru, the Indie-German Shepherd mix breed, who was associated with the Masty success story for more than a decade. Ever since he was a little puppy, most likely deflected off his parents or owners at a very young age, he was at Masty. Soverignity, which can be personified as what he enjoyed at Masty.

One of the staffs at Masty, largely formed of equal mixture of Indian and Nepal origin, spilled some hot oil on this pup. His right abdominal side was badly burnt and mostly lost all the fur in the area, that was regenerated burnt skin. Out of what can be imagined only as - guilt - the staff started taking care of the puppy. Because of the unlimited supply of bones and raw & boiled chicken at Masty, the pup recovered and turned out to be a handsome young dog. Sheru - he was named. Sheru Taa - the war cry, the aggressive command that you tend to train all dogs with. Quite normally most people have - Choo Choo or Shu Shu - followed by the name of the dog. We have imagined, that when a senior staff is going on a long leave, the only two words he can pass on as a mantra, to the young boy who is replacing him in his duties while he is away - is Sheru Taa. The maha-mantra that will keep the young boy safe at the new location - Sheru Taa.

Let’s fast forward to June 2016. When we acquired Masty by increasing our stake from equal to sole owner of a branch. We inherited the staff, the kitchen (without equipments and cutlery) and Sheru. There were other Indie and some mixed breed dogs in and around Masty - with close proximity to Chicken and warmth of safety. So as Sheru grew up, he slowly became the Alpha of Masty. His face had a lot of war-like scars. He must have engaged in a lot of battles late at night, against enemies wanting to scrouge for some chicken remains. His structure and stature were both respectable. There were about 11 dogs some mixed and Indie including our protagonist, Sheru. In the evenings, when Masty operates, for the initial few days, staff needed to be vigilant about Dogs closing proximity with the tables and guests eating in them. After about a month, after being frustrated about the fact that Masty’s Zomato rating dropped from 4.3 to 3.5 within the last two years of operation under the recent Manager. None of the owners cared to be interested, at the time. I came across a Review which talks about Dogs licking Plates late around closure at Masty. The date stamp of the review identifies our innocence, as it happened before our acquisition. That very day, I called a few guys who humanely catch stray dogs and take them away. Partly, because I didn’t want to know and partly because I had some idea about dumping at places like Piraña.

When I announced my decision to get rid of stray dogs. Almost all the staff starting from youngest to the eldest, in one way or the other requested me not give Sheru and Suntali away. While describing his qualities all of them were equivocal. We feel safe if Sheru is around. The primary hygiene problem that I was worrying about didn’t apply to Sheru, as he never went to a table. Irrespective of the time, you will always find him guarding Masty from all infiltrations and attacks externally. Sheru enjoyed soveriginity of the canine world at Masty. The usual Masty bone and fat disposal mechasim was selling it away. One day co-incidentally I saw a lot of crows and a few kites swooping in to catch a bite of fat strings. We stopped selling bones and fat with immediate effect. The Masty Kite feeding show was born. Slowly as we were not selling, the number of kites and crows grew consistently. Kids enjoy it a lot. The swiftness and accuracy of catching a piece that you throw at them or arially.

Fast forward to his castration. For insuring him against testicular cancer largely prevalent among largish Indie Mix dogs. Castration was suggested and it happened, we couldn’t have his pups anymore.

Fast forward to when he hurt himself badly in the cranium or skull. His first stint with maggots. A dog loving friendly couple volunteered to get him surgically operated at site to save him. I remember a conversation with this Sikh Gentleman, regarding the Alpha-ness, feature and life of Sheru.

The above to instances are narrated to me by our trustworthy staff. When they described an incredible - personally verified fact - I felt intrigued. They said he understands schedules. We do not order Tomatoes at a scheduled day frequency within the week. So it is not like we ask for Tomatoes every Modnay, Wednesday, Friday etc. We order Tomatoes whenever we need them. If there is good sale, we may have to order on alternating days. Monkeys love Tomatoes. So when they are ordered, the vegetables delivery guy dumps all the vegetables in the morning around 6:30-7 right next to a staff-occupied table. Sheru understood that Monkey attack is imminent if these red spheres are ordered. I had to verify this. As I trust my eyes, more than my ears, I had to see it. I came down on random mornings and was pleasantly surprised to see this. I was surprised to see him sitting next to vegetables packs. For hours he would patiently sit there. While he was sitting there, like Heimdall, monkey groups although circulating around can’t attempt nicking a few tomatoes, or any other vegetable for that matter. I followed this consistently, checked his nightly movement in CCTV etc, exceptional location choices to make sure kitchen is safe. He spent equal time around all the beds/tables where staff slept. We didn’t have the surrounding compound wall that we recently built. So vulnerability, at least in terms of other dogs - was there. While he was guarding, only the most hungry Om will venture in and he would heroically chase/fight it out. As I observed, understood his role and behaviour, this qualified him from normal stray to one of the most exceptional beings. I have seen a lot of pets, with a lot of people. This has transpired to a lot of conversations and stories about typical behaviour by the pet and owner. None, as understanding and as loyal as Sheru.

Movie industry has tried depicting such understanding and behaviour of pets, particularly dogs in a very special way in a lot of movies. Marley & Me, Teri Meharbanian, Mard, Milo from The Mask and a lot of others. Equally, a lot of celebrity pets and dogs are famous and their celebrity owners are publically seen with their pawed friends. A quick google image search of celebrity pets reveals quite a few known and unknown pet-loving celebrities. Myhtologically too, it is said Yudhishthir argued with the gate keeper of heaven, in the Swargarohan Parv of Mahabharat, to let his companion - a dog - in with him.

Now that Sheru had a new found respect in my head, I noticed that he was aging. Already more than 12+ years at Masty. He was the second most senior staff. He has participated in brawls between staff and overly drunk groups and with other four legged intruders. Multiple Cranial surgeries had left scars on his skull right in the middle of his upright ears, typical GSD feature. Both eyes had cataracts removed. Clipped right ear as a sign of castration performed by AMC. He was filthy. Didn’t like water. An otherwise macho dog, shit scared when you chain him and pull next to the water source. Squeaking like a little puppy, the gentle one has never even tried to bite me. I have personally showered him on more than monthly frequency. Gentle beast. Quietly standing there as the whole process takes place. Sheru - rekindled a different interest in me. We decided to get a few pedigree dogs, so that we support Sheru as he was ageing. The Masty Dog Squad or the Bone Disposal Squad was conceived. 3 - 33 days old Rottweiler pups arrived, from a friend, with pedigree and inquiries. Suntali was also carrying. A litre of milk was added to the daily quota for the newly arrived puppies. A staff was assigned to take care of them. Suntali delivered 7 puppies. My children, their friends started visiting Masty more often with 10 puppies. The office room at Masty or the Command Centre - was transformed to a make-shift Pup Residence. Vaccination schedules understood and executed. They were christened Leo, Speedy and Bosco by the children. Two boys and a Girl were added to the Masty team which erstwhile consisted of just Sheru. Bosco was always supposed to go to Kutchh, at the residence of a family friend. After ~60 days at Masty, Bosco left. Dog Trainer contacted and sessions began. She envisioned and brought a lot of families and their pets, on Sunday mornings. The Sunday Masty group was born. Despite being busy or having a late night, Sunday Masty featured regularly in our family schedule. Variety of Pawed new friends, their loving and typical parents. Some caring, some over protective and some care free. A lot a new and close friends happened. Suntali and her pups left to friends farm. This brought me up close with a lot of issues, people and organisations working in this area. Forceful breeding industry, pets shipped in flights and trains to get them. Illicit OLX trading. Stray population explosion. Indie (Desi) breed slowly being extinct. Irresponsible behaviour by pet parents. Boy friend gifting the girlfriend a dog and girlfriend wants now to give it away as they now have broken up, and the dog reminds her of the relationship, and depresses her. People just leaving pets on the road, like Nirupa Roy leaving children in old movies outside a church or mandir. A bubbled and protected pet will not be able to spend a few days in the urban territorial jigsaw of stray dogs. No food, panic, everyone barking - they loose it. Most die, some survive. Some kind citizenry drop or arrange them to be at Shelters like the one I know in Kathwada. Shiny another lab-dane (more of lab-dober) Mix arrived at Masty and added variety to the group. Sheru was Creamish-Brown. Leo and Speedy were typical Rottweiler colour greyish black with brown patches - as distracting decoys around the eyes, neck and feet. Shiny was jet black and her coat was worthy of her name.

Back to Masty Dog Group, lot of guests now know about Puppies in the office room. They came and played with them, before or after dinner. Sunday’s continued. Leo and Speedy, genetically Rottweilers grew up to be two of the most docile creatures. Children can be left around them safely. Otherwise public perception and popular opinion is them being one of the most ferocious of the breeds. Social circumstances - I believe. The was all of them play with each other on Sundays was incredible to see. Lot of events and stories around Sunday Masty, but back to Sheru. He never participated in any of this. Like the social outcast, who is sulking and observing a group who are enjoying themselves. Time flew, Sheru got the senior figurely respect that he commanded an deserved. Neutering for Leo was scheduled, didn’t work out because of his pre-op blood report showing low levels of Haemoglobin. A few months passed and after Diwali vacation, we realised both Speedy and Shiny were carrying. Co-incidentally when we actually took them to operate for neutering. Shiny had a disappearing episode in the middle. Once retrieved from Kathwada after a WhatsApp and Facebook lost pet campaign. She went out again and came back carrying after a few weeks. We were guilty of not chaining any of them. They were kind and obedient. Never went to the tables and were never aggressive to guests. We made sure that no-one fed them at the table. Their hygiene and schedules were maintained so that they became an attraction instead with guests. Customers who initially wrote stinking reviews regarding Dogs at Masty were now posting selfies with Leo, Speedy or Shiny. Regular checkup’s and the 63 day cycle later, 7 puppies arrived from Speedy. We lost two, five remained and grew up to adoption age. Sunday Masty group was thrilled at arrival. Office room was now a labour cum puppy room. Kids were tasked with finding names for the pups. They were not allowed to touch them for a month. A month after Speedy, Shiny delivered 7 pups. Masty Dog Bregade now has 16 dogs! Two Staff were assigned to take care of the puppies. Speedy was docile but Shiny was aggressive. Puppies cutely fed from either of the mothers. Sheru - all this while indifferent - the Heimdall.

Fast forward to the decline. Sheru hurt himself two more times. Once was a deep abdominal wound and later as a glass cut on the right hind paw. Seven puppies were adopted in time. Some to be retained. The youngest of Speedy named Choti, was the weakest of them all. She caught distemper, although vaccinated all the puppies still remaining at Masty caught it. Sunday Masty was suspended for safety of the pawed friends. We lost all except one - one at a time. An unfortunate accident with Sheru left him paralysed from this waist. Lot of medicines, visits happened with the vet. He could move his rear legs. The fighter in him, struggled and drag himself outside for bio-breaks. Such routine and loyalty, where I live - I shall not soil. He survived for more than a month like that, staff and doctors tried all avenues. As he couldn’t move his waist, his groin got infected with urine. We wouldn’t bathe him anymore. One Friday afternoon, staff requested me to take a call. The Vet explained the process. We had a usual social get-together at Masty. The vet arrived around eight-nine in the night. With Friday evening rush at Masty, Sheru was readied for his last journey. A needle and a minute later - as I felt his heart rate slow down slowly. ‘He is gone’ - the vet announced. Most of all senior staff was around him. All of them paid their respects. Another pup also had be put down. Arrangements were made for wood. Pure was set. After business closure, as we were having dinner, the staff brought flowers. Most of all had teary eyes. Some hugged each other and cried loudly. Wrapped in a bed sheet - with Ram Bolo Bhai Ram - the staff procession took him to the pyre in the parking. Buckets full of oil, ghee, incense sticks - whatever rituals they knew were conducted. Once all was ready one of them called me. He along with the puppy was ignited.

Just at that moment when they were carrying him Awat, one of my closest friends uttered the words extempore, that formed the title of this blog - ‘Soverignity is not everlasting’.

An hour later, he was burning - mixing slowly with the elements of nature. I went there and spent a quiet couple of minutes at the ashes, the next morning. Shedding quiet tear and bidding adieu to a beloved friend and a loyal staff. He took a part of my interest in Masty Dog Squad. Speedy and Shiny fled again in their heat cycle. We didn’t ‘try’ to bring them back. Leo stays with a relative, eats and visits Masty daily. But Masty Dogs are incomplete without the one called - Sheru. Rest in peace my friend.

~ Remembering - Sheru

Thursday, March 7, 2013

What if Extra Terrestrial Life Existed?

A lot of thought-waves have been whirl-pooling in the mind this sleepless morning. I could not think of a better question to start inquiring - using a rational and highly opinionated ruler. What sort of conditions would determine the events that follow such a discovery? There are so many perspectives that we can try and think of. Could we draw some inspiration from our own history, perhaps from other Earthly species of plants and animals. Recently broadcasted David Attenborough's and Andrew Marr's BBC documentary series' and my understanding of psychology would be the over-arching assumptions to this. However, lets venture into a few of them in a bit more detail.

I always used to wonder why developed world Governments spend so much effort on Space programmes. But as my understanding of History becomes clearer, I feel its to do with setting a claim on things they think might be out there. Resources were historically why clans travelled from a place to another, its true even now and will be true in the future. The scene of first Europeans landing on the shores of Australia or America comes to mind. The people involved were no doubt Adventurers, travelling enormous distances in those days with minimal modern equipments, but the people who financed them did not have philanthropic motives. What follows is inevitable friction between the Discoverer and the Discovered. The strong tries to control the weak. Our way is better than yours. Social and Cultural exchange can only happen once communication can be established overcoming the language barriers. Economics and barter will take precedence along with mixing of gene-pools.

All the movies that touch this subject from Hollywood to Home have many ideas pictured with varied prudence. If we find a species seemingly advanced, we will surely try and get what is good from them. Better medicines, equipments, resources, education, governance models and society in general. It will no doubt bring its own challenges like extra diseases to worry about and other opinions to adjust with. It could either be a gradual evolutionary integration or instant annihilation.

But the question of who is better is based on perspective. TV trivia tells me that 90% of aboriginal Australians died out in a decade of Europeans setting foot on the continent. Some in battle and most with newly brought diseases. Hard to believe. So the Biological factors will be the first to worry about.

The Gujju businessmen will surely be keen on setting up shop to barter and migrate to the new space, evolving and figuring out a migration & integration strategy. Apple with iHuman and Google with their eye on their communication mechanisms to crawl through.

I would not be surprised if there already would be irrelevant policy documents which describe the process of what should be done if we find someone else. So much for improvisation and creativity. But exciting nevertheless..

Rant

Saturday, October 13, 2012

परिवर्तनवाद

Its not often you wonder where the last year went. The date of last post makes me think the same. Lot of changes to life, thoughts, habits, likings, reading, hobbies et. all. The summary of which remains - change - evolution? I guess the ability to think about it is what makes us different from the rest of living organisms, or that is what we think, at least. Aim to complete a book gifted by a friend this month, have a lot of musings - but don't think have the patience right now of penning them down. Lethargy

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Cricket-o-Cricket!


Did not verify the source of the previous article, which I humbly remove now, with apology. It was just a circulation just like a re-tweet (slightly longer hence re-blogged), producing the complete content for the reader to make their own informed opinion, which everyone is entitled to.

But this just shows that anything related to cricket sells like hot-cakes and motivates people to passionately comment. Hence, it seems inevitable to me that people will find vested commercial interests to earn from and play with psychology of the masses. As we've been seeing it since years, be it trps, blog hits, youtube views facebook page views, tweets and what not will come out in the future.

Hence the fame and the pressure that comes with it. But not everyone can digest it well, some buckle under the unnecessary stress and some survive. Every successful person has carved a name for themselves with great effort. Comments which are constructive and non-offensive are welcome but down right mud-slinging is uncalled for..

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Question and Wonder!

This is an excerpt which will, I am sure, make you Question and Wonder about what it has to say..

These two words often occupy most of our attention and time. From cradle to grave we beset with the emotions and excitements connected to these two words.

Yet these words have nothing in common; and in them they have nothing in similar; In fact they often drag us in opposite directions.

What is a question? It is something related to situations or sentiments; it is related to some problem or some other question; What is it? Why is it and how is it, in relation to life and living?

But what does it achieve, except a temporary truce to curiosity? A question begins with doubts, and ends with more doubts.

And what is wonder? It is not a question needing an answer. It is a positive expression of joy. It begins with innocence and ends in amazement.

A wonder is something that we are unable to understand and yet we are unable to question. The vast universe & the varied seasons, the complexity of life and the completeness of the creation, evoke in us a feeling of puzzlement and of joy.

A question often leads to criticism but wonder always leads to compassion; A question presupposes confusion, wonder presupposes innocence.

A question generates more questions, wonder generates more of wonder. There is no completeness in question; there is no compartment in a wonder;

A question leads us to knowledge which is always partial, a wonder leads us to joy & love which is always full. It is human to question. It is divine to wonder!

- Acharya Ratnananda in More Light on Less Knowd (Vol-1)

Question??
Or
Wonder!!

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

International Thank-You Day

Aiming for 11/1/11 11:11 !!

Not sure what the recent obsession I've developed with special dates and timestamps, but a simple search on Wolfram Alpha reveals Jan 11 is International Thank-You Day!

Hence grateful and nostalgia filled, to everyone that has been a part of our life, directly or indirectly

Thank You